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Sunday, November 28, 2010


<<论语>>中的损者三友

- 脾气暴躁的朋友
- 过渡优柔寡断的朋友
- 心怀鬼胎的朋友

这以上朋友千万不可交，否则会付出惨痛代价

怎么样交到对的朋友？
1)仁 2)智慧

仁就是爱人，心中对人需要爱，真正爱人就是仁。
智慧是知人。了解他人就是智慧，也就是辨别他人的能力。

交友的心理原则是尊重和尺度。
1）什么时候说话就说，不要抢话说
2）不要有话不说
3）不要闭眼说瞎话
Came arcoss this website: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1ntn5CFYjw&feature=related